Congratulations to my dear friend Dr Jennifer Herrick (pictured here with my lovely wife at our 25th wedding anniversary party) for her strength, courage and persistence in dragging the (Roman) Catholic Church in Australia to recognition and penitence for the clergy sexual abuse she suffered in the past. It has been a long struggle. I know only some of the details and emotions which we have been privileged to share as Jen has fought this battle. However this week, alongside other 'compensation', she finally secured a both a public apology and a public admission of the eventual defrocking of the offending priest. Check out the ABC coverage here.
This is certainly a landmark case for Australia. For a Royal Commission rightly continues to help address child sexual abuse perpetrated by members of Australia's Churches and other institutions, greatly accelerating long delayed appropriate responses and responsibility. May that process continue to be fruitful, bringing some genuine consolation and integrity out of pain and refusal to respond. Others have however also suffered who do not fall into a childhood age bracket, some of them very vulnerable in other ways. Together with my friend Jen, I hope therefore that others may indeed now be enabled to come forward to build on the gateway of healing which has been created.
The issues raised are also challenging of course not only for the surivors of such abuse and the workings of power in ecclesiastical institutions but for clergy as individuals. Hopefully this case will therefore also encourage all of us in accredited positions to reflect more deeply on our own care and approach to relationships. Churches in the West may not have the power or influence they once had, and many may describe themselves as disinterested if not hostile to Christianity as such. Yet the spiritual power exercised by clergy should not be underestimated, especially when it comes to vulnerable or suscepible people.
In the meanwhile, I look forward to sharing with my friend many more times of joy, wine, good theological discussion and the love of the Sydney Swans!
Whilst the statistics and reality of many women's lives continue to highlight the pressing need for feminist change, the plight of many men is also often hidden. In addition to the terrible effects of abuse, male survivors also face particular male issues of shame and humiliation. This is further heightened by cultural issues among some communities. How good then to hear of projects like Living Well in Brisbane. One recent initiative, launched during NAIDOC Week, is a video entitled 'No More Silence: Healing from Sexual Abuse'. This aims 'to start a conversation about community' and involves members talking and working together to raise awareness, to offer support, encouragement and hope to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander men who have been sexually abused in childhood.' Check out the resources available on the website and watch the video below...
Jo Inkpin is an Anglican priest serving as Minister of Pitt St Uniting Church in Sydney, a trans woman, theologian & justice activist. These are some of my reflections on life, spirit, and the search for peace, justice & sustainable creation.